A 50-something French dude that’s old enough to think blogs are still cool, if not cooler than ever. I also like to write and to sketch.

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  • Les retombées sont essentiellement politiques ou de l’ordre de la menace (par MS, j’entends). Nonobstant la résistance au changement, bien entendu.

    De fait.

    Quant aux conséquences positives, elles sont, je suppose, essentiellement économiques (enfin, j’ose l’espérer).

    Je me fais peu d’illusions à ce niveau: tant que une masse d’entreprises (et de consommateurs) considéreront l’argent public comme une ‘ressource gratuite’, il y aura pillage plus ou moins en règle de ladite ressource. Exemple tout con : y a aucune raison matérielle pour que les montures de lunettes soient vendues si chères en France… mais comme elles sont remboursées. Si le client devait payer de sa poche, je ne doute pas que les prix baisseraient soudainement.


  • but I’m just not interested in such low-effort crap. Me, I’m here for the original spirit of the community, but I guess many are not? Fine.

    With you on that.

    Obviously breaks RULE #1, and to a lesser extent, RULES #2 and #3.

    People can do mistakes. They can unintentionally post stuff that breaks the rules and don’t even realize it. A bit like they can upvote something just because the enjoy it, not even realizing the content goes against the rules. To be honest, I don’t understand why you think that post you mentioned breaks rule2?

    And YET people here upvote that low-effort crap? Okay, got it. Fine. Big part of why I’m going to need a long vacation from this project.

    As an old dude myself (maybe older than you are? Nearing my 60s) I would be tempted to remind you that you can’t control people’s behavior and probably should not be willing to or you risk losing your sanity. Some people can be dumber than an old wet rag, and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

    I quite regularly mention my rather painful first encounter with the Fediverse. It was on Lemmy, but that could apply anywhere on the Fediverse. To put it mildly, I was disappointed and quite frustrated with the shit ton of low effort posts and even shittier politics, when not outright pure hatred, I was served by default. Had I not quickly discovered and learned to use the filtering and blocking tools I would have ran away from the Fediverse, to never come back… like I ran away from Twitter, which is saying a lot in regards to what my default first experience was around here.

    (To anyone wondering, no, this is not me being judgmental on anyone. This just me stating that I have clear expectations regarding what I’m willing to spend my time reading and, a lot more importantly to me, what I’m not willing to waste my time with, aka no shitty politics, no low efforts posts.)

    When I first found this community I hesitated to join as I really have little interest in memes but quickly realized this had nothing to do with memes, nothing, and that each new post was even quite stimulating and surprising. I joined and did not regret it even though not every single post was a hit with me.

    Now do I sound bitchy and uncool upon all that? Absolutely, fluffing-yes. But damn it, I thought I’d tried.

    I like most of what you posted. I also don’t like some of the pictures posted by some other contributors and I agree with you: they are not in the spirit of the community. But like I was saying, they can honestly be mistaken and hopefully they can learn.

    Why don’t I post myself? I’m not much of a comics person. I’m a huge fan of ‘Asterix’ (which is French so it won’t play well with an English speaking community), ‘Calvin & Hobbes’, ‘Peanuts’ (to some extend) and of ‘Corto Maltese’ but most of what I read are text-based books. Many of the comics I used to enjoy as a child would undoubtedly have been able to contribute some content around here, but since I have kept none of them…

    So, thx a lot for what you did. Including this last message, that could hopefully trigger a healthy discussion. I’m not giving up on the idea of reading more of your contributions sometimes in the future.



  • For a few years I was a happy (paying) Kagi customer and like mentioned in other comments already, for me there was no going back: it works great, it’s bloat free with even a focus on small web, and a lot of cool features. Then, the new US President arrived with his team and their shitty politics. As a EU citizen I could not trust US services anymore and I was not willing to send them money either…

    I went back to the French Qwant. It’s far from being perfect (they’re working on their own index but so far I think they still use Microsoft’s Bing), at least it protects my privacy from Microsoft’s (and it works fine).

    Would I be US citizen, I would happily keep paying for Kagi. It’s really good. Much better than anything else, imho.





  • My opinion is that toxicity can be found in every little gesture in our daily life, no need for an highway. It’s also not somethign ‘external’ to us that appears because of poor decisions. It can and often thrives even in the most ‘humble’ or humane ‘infrastructures’, to use you image. Suffice to look how two people, say two neighbors, can literally hate on one another for petty reasons.

    If you build platforms that don’t allow cars/limit their behavior where people are trying to have a polite conversation, you’ll see quiet more thoughtful modes of transportation and fewer innocent bystanders get hurt.

    People can have a fight on the street, or in a pub, in a shop, at work, or wherever, even at home, within a family circle, because “he looked at me!” or because “I don’t like the way he dress” kind of reasons. Do you really think tech is the issue?

    But once again, you’re more than welcome to believe what you want to believe. Just don’t try to put words in my mouth that I did not say.


    • Firefox (now using Waterfox), I started using when it was still Mosaic and no idea it would one day become Mozilla Firefox…
    • LibreOffice.
    • In a couple years, maybe three, I’ll be on Mint for 10 years and, yep, I do like it. And I certainly love many GNU apps that came with my distro: they’re lightweight, focused and so incredibly useful <3
    • I used to love Mac OS (previous to Linux, since the early 80s I had been an Apple user) and many small third party apps. But I moved away from Apple and have no desire to go back.


  • The problem for me is woulda-coulda-shoulda. I’d love for human habits and human behavior to be tweaked and improved in certain ways, but reality is reality, sadly or not.

    meaning there is no way trying? That’s not what I want to think. Because if that was so, there would be no way to try to correct what is not going fine, ever.

    That is what typically gets the most votes and engagement.

    I don’t care much about votes. And I say that as someone who doesn’t post much put comment a lot more ;)


  • An image can help sell / explain the concept,

    They do, you’re right. But I think that is something we should try to resist. We should encourage people to put back some values into ‘mere’ words. Not suggesting images are bad, bu they’re only one leg, the other being words. And it’s not just a personal feeling that words are being… neglected, for images.

    The same with YT and TikTok: I see a lot of people that won’t read a book when asked to, they will watch someone talk about the book, making a summary and some comment about it. One can replace ‘book’ with any other type of content that require some reading. That video maybe excellent and fascinating in itself it still is not the actual book. Reading matters. Or it should.


  • How do we fix/improve this culture of toxicity?

    We don’t because:

    1. it’s a wider issue than ‘the Internet’. Haven’t you noticed how even politics in general, which was supposed to be the epitome of our democratic societies, has morphed into an hate-filled shit show at best, when it’s not effing openly celebrating murders and assassinations of people we don’t like?
    2. we’re part of the issue. It’s not a ‘them’ vs ‘us’. It’s us. And most of us, no matter what we believe in, are acting like morons, at best.

    but Lemmy seems to have gotten worse alongside the rest of internet culture, proving me wrong.

    Lemmy has not “gotten worse” in my opinion. It was worse to begin with and when I arrived a few years ago, the first thing I had to urgently learn is how to filter out what I call its ‘noise’: that constant (and self-celebrating) hatred for ‘the other camp’, the hatred for those who dare not think like ‘us’ (I certainly don’t put myself in that group). I then moved from Lemmy to Piefed, mostly because back then at least it offered me simpler/more efficient ways to filter out that noise.

    How do we fix/improve this culture of toxicity?

    Like mentioned in other comments, the only way is through changing (civil) society itself. Aka through education.

    As long as our respective public educative systems (I’m from France, but I know it’s as shitty in the USA if not worse) are allowed to not do their job of actually educating and teaching kids some common values and principles (next to some actual knowledge and know-how), toxicity will thrive.

    It thrives because it has been normalized and because those who benefit from it are being regarded as role models. But it’s even worse than that: just publicly discussing this issue and its causes would expose anyone to being… punished by an angry toxic crowd of people that don’t want to hear they’re being toxic (or that their ‘ideology’ they want so hard to believe in have morphed them into assholes). That is a huge loss for any freedom respecting society, and a huge win for those benefiting from that hate/toxicity.

    edit: clarifications.