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  • Personally, I’ve found that many people who say they support trans people with some caveat aren’t die-hard adherents to the position of the caveat. Many just haven’t ever actually talked to a trans person, and a single interaction can do a lot. When I used to drive a cab I was the only trans woman a lot of my passengers had ever had a substantial interaction with, and it seemed to have an impact.





  • Trolling is interacting with people, usually disingenuously, with the goal of eliciting a specific, usually negative, reaction. It certainly is possible to troll people by telling the truth (or without saying a word) and it’s certainly possible to be aiming for a reaction that isn’t negative, but usually there’s an element of being disingenuous to piss someone off.

    Trolling is inevitable. Sometimes it’s politically motivated, sometimes it’s for fun, sometimes it’s literally a game with actual points. Some trolls are obvious, some are nearly impossible to tell from the genuine article.

    The impact of trolling varies based on the subject, the target, and the method. Usually I find it’s best to ignore the possibility of trolling unless it’s obvious, simply due to the fact that assuming people are trolling may interfere with genuine communication, whereas assuming people are being genuine only interferes with meaningless interactions. Some say it’s better to ignore trolls, but personally I think it’s better to focus on content rather than intent. Interact when interaction is called for, ignore when it isn’t, and don’t pull your hair out wondering whether it’s a real conversation.





  • When I first looked at the comic my thought was to question why Nirvana would be on the cycle at all. Given that it represents transcendence of the cycle and freedom from illusion, one might think it should be detached from the clinging loop of pain and pleasure. But I suppose it’s also part of another larger cycle of being drawn in by the illusion of Samsara and eventually finding one’s way out. Both are different states of the same phenomenon of consciousness, the same way pleasure and pain are both states if the same phenomenon of attachment.

    The difference I suppose is that the pointy bits here are the times when we’re convinced and the smooth bits are the times when we can see past it. In Samsara we cling to both pleasure and pain, while in Nirvana we cling to neither, but in both states the other still exists as part of the same larger phenomenon.