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  • Crackhappy@lemmynsfw.comOP
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    22 days ago

    I’ve been engaged in chastity consistently for about 15 years now. I’ve tried tons of different cages and products, have had a few different keyholders, some who I lived with and a couple times who lived in the same city but weren’t engaged with me romantically or sexually.

    The device I’m currently locked in, that I’ve realized I can literally keep on indefinitely is a titanium Bijou with a special key that you can’t replicate or force open. I can clean it effectively without taking it off with a small amount effort and a tiny brush.

    Currently I’m self-locked. I use a metal timed lock box to hold my key (with an emergency key held by a friend). Every day I have to spin a wheel with various times on it. 60% of the wheel consists of “skip” which means I don’t have to add any time to my lock box. The other 40% consist of 1 day, 3 days, 5 days and 7 days of added time.

    I started my current lock cycle at 7 days, and have gotten very unlucky, as I’m currently at 40 days with it on, and another 8 days on the timer. Every one of those 8 days now has a chance to add even more time. At one point I managed to get down to 5 days before getting two 7 days in a row!

    It’s been fun, and since I’m no longer having sex and the cage is perfectly comfortable all the time, it’s fun to see how long it will take.