It’s a sunny day, we’re outside, good mood, drinking a coffee. I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions. I tell her we can instead talk about whatever she feels like. She says she doesn’t want to talk about anything. We weirdly sit in silence for a while. I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue. Is this normal?
It’s called comfortable silence and is totally normal. Sometimes it’s nice to just sit together and prepare for the day.
Given they said “it’s too early for philosophical discussions” seems like you were doing some big talk while they just wanted to wake up a bit.
Constant talking all the time would drive me mad personally.