I love my extrovert friend. He has so many friends that forgot about me for months, but if I’m in the mood, an Oi in the chat immediately brings him in again and suddenly I’m in a party with a lot of people having good time.
I force so many of my introvert friends to do shit and they love me for it.
I’m glad you’re there for them. I like getting out of my comfort zone to but not every day. Seems like everyone in my life has boundary issues.
No I’d like to be adopted, I need to get out more just don’t make me talk to people
I don’t know how people just talk with each other. I need an activity I can focus on or else I start taking damage over time if the conversation lasts longer then 3 minutes.
Tossing bags, disc golfing, darts, pool, SOMETHING.
I can get that but I can not have anything more complex than music I know going while trying hold a conversation or I can’t focus on it at all
really is a 50/50 wether I’ll like being adopted or absolutely hate everything
You have to be firm and stand strong when your social battery is to low to go out. The good natured instigator will still instigate, but you must be able to say no.
