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tweet by Johann Hari: The core of addiction is not wanting to be present in life, because pour life is too painful a place to be. This is why imposing more pain or punishment on a person with an addiction problem actually makes their addiction worse.

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    1 year ago

    Yep so the doctor would recommend a service to do your laundry, leaves you more “me time” to handle the stress. Taking medication has side effects as well, very few of them are fun. My kid hasn’t gained a pound in a year since starting his medication. Sure it helps him focus, but he’s now falling behind on his growth and has trouble sleeping through the night. You’re trading problems for other problems. Medication is not some magic fix all, that’s pure ignorance.

    It’s funny that you think a doctor knows less than you…….

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      It’s funny that you think a doctor knows less than you…….

      A lot of doctors disagree with other doctors. Lots of them straight up don’t believe in ADHD, or adult ADHD in particular. Hell yes I believe I know more than some random random doctor about my own personal experiences, especially if the doctor refuses to acknowledge established medical science.

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        Like you are now with giving people side effects instead of working with them?

        The established medical science is to try to figure out why the person needs to cope more or need medicine, most symptoms of ADHD can actually be resolved by dealing with issues at home, better diet, more accommodations. Forcing other peoples ideas of what normal is and medicating someone until they fit it, isn’t what any doctor recommends.

        Unless they care more about money from prescriptions than actually helping someone and dealing with the root causes.

        Now not everyone can have their home life improved and would require medicine, but that’s not saying that things couldn’t also be better without medicine.

        Sounds like you need to do some research and get more than one doctors opinion here.

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          I’ve seen numerous doctors about my ADHD as well as a counselor who specializes in ADHD. The root cause is my fucking brain doesn’t work right. I don’t have ADHD from a messed up home life or whatever you’re imagining.

          And how am I giving people side effects? I’m a fucking patient. Take your condescending bullshit somewhere else.

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            Adhd is congenital it doesn’t come from home issues, but resolving home issues would make someone not need to cope. People just need to be loved instead of pushed away for their disorder.

            I’m sorry your doctors haven’t explained this to you yet apparently. Not everyone can resolve home issues and is why medication is still an option.

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              People just need to be loved instead of pushed away for their disorder.

              Straight up no, I need fucking dopamine so my brain can function. Sure home issues can EXACERBATE ones struggles but they are not a root cause. ADHD is a spectrum, and sure some may not have it to the same extent where adjusting one’s home life can reduce their struggles to the point where it no longer impacts their day to day, but that does not mean it’s a one stop solution for ADHD. In many cases, getting to a baseline where you can function REQUIRES medication. The fact you do not understand this shows your complete lack of understanding when it comes to ADHD, for your kids sake I really hope you decide to learn more about it or your gonna fuck that kid up by not allowing them to be properly prepared for their future. Ffs talk about complete ignorance thinking ADHD is solvable with a loving home.

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                Yeah that’s issue, your loving family isn’t giving you your dopamine replacement so you require meds.

                You can absolutely fix someone’s home life so they don’t need to be medicated, but not everyone’s parents or family want to help them with that.

                You don’t ever need dopamine, there replacements and other stuff to get that high.

                Your ignorance is why there’s the stigmata that people need help are drug addicts.

                I’ve shown I understand the nuances of ADHD quite well, I am sorry that you’re hearing stuff that you don’t want to hear, you’re also showing symptoms with your stubbornness and lack of wanting to understand.

                And yes adhd can be resolved with a loving home, im sorry you’ve been lied to by your family or doctor since they didn’t want to help. Maybe find a doctor who’s been using evidence and methods that aren’t outdated and proven ineffective.

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                    https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/non-drug-treatments-for-adult-adhd

                    Maybe do some research and learn something instead of perpetuating that everyone needs drugs.

                    You’re using the excuses abusers use to justify continuing to abuse it. You’re nothing but a druggie.

                    If you are hav¬ing trouble with everyday functioning because of ADHD, then trying drug treatment makes sense. If the impact of ADHD is minor and you’ve figured out coping strategies without a formal diagnosis and treatment plan, your doctor may instead advise treatments that don’t involve medications

                    Anyone who thinks they need drugs to function are abusers and I feel sorry for their friends and family that have to suffer by putting up with it.

                    We “gwyneth paltrow”s may actually know something here, if you put the drugs down so the rest of us can have the medication.

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                    1 year ago

                    What does that got to do with your doctors refusing to listen to newer techniques that have long disproven the older methods outdated?

                    If you think someone needs to be medicated to function, I feel sorry for wherever you live, since that attitude just leads to opioid issues. Proven over and over.

                    Maybe listen to the newfound information, you may learn something that would actually help you.