I’ve heard it explained that “hey” used to be more of an urgent way to get someone’s attention, rather than a casual “hello” like it is now, so it sounded rude to some older folks.

    • oce 🐆@jlai.lu
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      11 months ago

      I thought it was every day life politeness, but I am not native. I would rather expect “the pleasure is all mine, sir” at a 3 Michelin stars restaurant.

      • ImFresh3x@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        11 months ago

        To me “you are welcome” comes off as taking credit for something minor and expected. No problem does the opposite. I prefer when people say no problem generally over you’re welcome. And that’s why it’s become more common in a day in age where people are expected to be less servile.