The problem isn’t you or the way you respond. And to have mood swings in this situation is very normal. This guy is making zero effort then making excuses and telling you what you want to hear when called on it. It feels one sided and like he’s kind of just stringing you along.

I know it’s really tough being single if you don’t have a supportive family or a strong support network in general, especially if going through hard times. It gets lonely. I’m not going to judge you for seeking what comfort you can and staying with him if you want to. You can completely ignore this too because I am giving unsolicited advice and being extremely blunt about something sensitive that’s none of my business.

I just wanted you to know that being with someone should be a much simpler and happier experience, and you deserve to have that. Your partner should be stoked to be with you. It really isn’t too much to ask.