I mean, if you want to get into it sure. But at the end of the day, different people like different things and we all live different lives. It’s not a reason to feel sad for someone. It’s not like they resent their lack of sexual or romantic feelings, that’s just how they are.
What I’ve derived from their answer is that they are incapable of sexual or romantic feelings. Hence they call themselves aromantic / asexual.
But if they’re capable and it’s their conscious decision to be aro / asex - then it’s another story.
I mean, if you want to get into it sure. But at the end of the day, different people like different things and we all live different lives. It’s not a reason to feel sad for someone. It’s not like they resent their lack of sexual or romantic feelings, that’s just how they are.