It’s painfully obvious that the Lemmy population is primarily men.
Frustrating.
edit: to save my sanity, I choose believe that the majority of comments here are trolling. Y’all cannot genuinely be this dense.
I wanted to talk with other women about this to get more clarity and it turns into…this. Damn.
My guy.
He’s literally the person complaining about it. So my advice was to ask.
“But it shouldn’t be always on the men to—!”
YEAH OKAY SURE but in this situation, if you really wanna know, just ask!
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It works. The problem is that this doesn’t work with women/humans that play games.
And at that point you should ask yourself is that a person you want in your life.
If I ask someone and get rejected in a rude way I’m hurt, of course, but at the same time I’m happy because I dodged a cunt.
And if you ask and get a positive response the whole thing starts on a great note.
So depending on your perspective it is a win-win situation.