I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.

For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.

For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.

  • flute@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    As a dude, there are a few places I like to be touched:

    • Nipples - not sure why, but I love being touched or sucked there
    • The pelvic area where the leg joins up - I LOVE being kissed there
    • Testicles - play with it any way you want, as long as it isn’t squeezing it should be fine
    • During sex, a partner was lightly scratching my back while moaning. Made me finish on the spot.
  • puddle@yiffit.netEnglish
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    1 year ago

    i like a lot of the usual things so i’ll skip those. One of the ones that people are usually confused about or think is a joke: the bridge of my nose. Like right where it meets the forehead. Something about pressure or being held there just feels really good and safe. It’s like i can turn my mind off a bit and just enjoy whatever other sensations are going on.

    On the flip side i don’t enjoy nipple stuff at all. i want to get it but it just doesn’t feel interesting. It’s kinda fun if someone wants to torment me though, it’s a bit like being tickled?

  • PsychedSy@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I don’t like being touched in particular areas. Makes me super uncomfortable. I’m big on hugs and cuddling, tho.

    • Marina @lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Yasss hugs and cuddling <33 I am generally okay with being touched anywhere (depending on the context of course) but one place - my bellybutton. I hate it. Idk what it is but it makes me feel ill