I was permanently banned from Reddit for being too silly so I will now be a depressed piece of living garbage here from now on 🥰

  • Asherah@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 months ago

    Well, I’d understand if I wasn’t the only one being left out. The rest of the group hasn’t drifted apart, I meant literally just they have drifted away from me. Only one of them is married and has a child. I’m being left behind, the rest of the friend group is sticking together.

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        2 months ago

        I don’t know. They just seem disinterested in including me. It’s probably my fault.

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          2 months ago

          Perhaps, but it probably doesn’t matter at this point. For whatever reason, they’re drifting away and you don’t know how to stop it. Blaming yourself doesn’t help if you don’t know what you even did wrong. Guessing wouldn’t be helpful, as your guess could be incorrect and create even more problems from you trying to solve it. Unless it’s something you can change, beating yourself up about something isn’t helpful.