• MagicShel@programming.dev
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    4 months ago

    “Watch” implies visual media, but in my experience women read tons of smut while men tend to enjoy photos and videos. You need to include smut to make it interesting, I think, because that might at least leave some doubt as to the outcome.

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      4 months ago

      In my limited experience, a lot of women also refuse to categorize their smut as porn. It’s just a “romance novel”. Or “fan fiction”. So that makes including reading difficult.

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        4 months ago

        Nah, erotica is a separate category from books with sex.

        I love, love , love the Kushiel’s Dart trilogy, and it’s got sex, violence, violent sex and sexual violence, but I read it for the story, the sex in the books serves the story.

        Erotica I would look at BDSMErotica on Reddit, or on Literotica, those stories I would use more like guys use visual porn,