• stebo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 month ago

    Yeah well I already have a ton of friends. I just think you can’t claim it will work 100% for everyone, because you can’t prove that.

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      1 month ago

      You’re missing the point by like a mile, you have to be open to new ones. Relationships don’t just appear out of nowhere.

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        1 month ago

        I am. I’m just saying it’s not because you got lucky that this will work out for everyone, so it’s not 100%

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          1 month ago

          Oh no you’re mistaken, I got incredibly lucky. But after more than a decade I can confidently say that I’ve never seemed more desirable since I have nothing to prove. That confidence is what I’m talking about, I’ve seen many people try hard and fail. I’ve seen many more people try less and succeed.