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  • Not sure why you think “supergirl” is any more stupid than “Superman”. Less original, sure, but nothing would indicate that a Superman movie would be inherently better/less stupid than a supergirl movie. The supergirl movie also made a point of showing how distinct it was from the Superman movie by not even taking place on the same planet. There was even a clip of her in the Superman movie showing her in direct contrast to him.

    It’s fine to say the movie sucks, but if an audience is turned away by just her name, I do think there’s an element of misogyny there. Makes me wonder if “superboy” would do better instead. The character was imagined at a time when things centered men and so her name is defined by that, but her actions are not just Superman redux. She has her own story, but it’s possible her name keeps her in his shadow for general audiences.


  • It seems like you didn’t read the article. The first sentence explains they were already ordered to pay her legal fees, this is just her submitting them. Considering this is her legal fees for his counter suit, I’m not sure how you think he’d countersue for this.

    Baldoni is the one who hired a PR company with an established anti female hate/smear campaign framework to ruin Lively. The involvement of Swift in the whole thing is so stupid, but there are no perfect victims. Livelys suits were mostly dismissed on procedural grounds, so she really didn’t lose and they ended up settling confidentiality out of court.

    Not sure what public you’re referring to, but I think people can spend what they want on their legal defense. Also not sure why you’re suggesting this is an insult to “real victims”, but if what she alleges occurred then it’s real sexual harassment.

    I don’t really care for her as an actress and she seems like someone I wouldn’t personally like, but pretty sure based on the content of the article she is able to recoup her expenses, though the actual amount is still to be determined.


  • There’s obviously variation, but I’ve noticed even within relatively solitary hobbies women tend to be more inviting. If a female friend enjoys thread crafting or painting they are more likely to invite me to join than a male friend. I have a few friends that paint and generally the men will show off their work and accept a compliment, but if you were to compliment a female they will offer to teach you or show you a trick they learned or something. I’m not sure if that’s related to gendered socialization, what they are seeking from the hobby, interest in hanging out with me in particular, or something else entirely, but it is something I’ve personally picked up on.






  • Yea, the thing I don’t get about the “if I don’t tip the workers will unionize” crowd is that they can just not go to tipping establishments or just eat takeout. You don’t have to basically steal labor from the workers. If you think “them making less money is better for the market” then just don’t make them work for you and refuse to pay what is expected. Boycotting tipping establishments would help, but that doesn’t get people free/less expensive stuff so they don’t do that.

    Even if I take them in the best faith possible, they’re just exploiting the workers themselves and blaming the workers for their exploitation. In that situation they basically take the place of the bosses saying “if you want a raise go work somewhere else”.

    I also hate tipping culture, but it’s so rude to go to another country (during a rise in fascism no less!) and act like by not following their norms you’re having any effect on the culture other than making yourself look like bad.




  • Yes! I’m not on insta or TikTok, but people will share horrible things like “can you believe they said this?” And yes, quite frankly I can because here you are commenting on it and sharing it. It’s like people don’t understand the concept of engagement. If someone has a video abusing their child, just report the video and potentially send it to the authorities if needed. Don’t comment and share the video!






  • It’s seen as bad to punch people. If someone is punching you and punching them back will get them to stop, generally most people would think it’s ok to punch them back. That doesn’t mean punching is good. It means that sometimes doing a bad thing (punching people) may be need and does not always make you bad as an individual.

    Unless you are a complete pacifist and against self defense of any kind (including restricting freedom of movement such as imprisonment), I’m not really sure why you’d disagree.

    Doing bad things to bad people does not make you good, but it doesn’t make you inherently bad.





  • Is it? It seems like the people responsible for fire safety are against it and that they are looking to study it with pilot programs, not that they already have data supporting it.

    I can see how certain advancements might make the need for two stairways less crucial, but I don’t love the idea of using people, likely lower income people, as fire safety testers. Especially since the benefit seems more about making things more financially sound for builders. Maybe we shouldn’t sacrifice people to literal flames so that huge companies can make some extra profit. I am open to data saying that it’s fine, I just don’t see that any was presented.