You’re included in that group :3

Lucky Charms is a breakfast cereal with a leprechaun mascot. This was his catch phrase or something (I never ate Lucky Charms and don’t remember the commercials)

:3

Problem 1: having friends

There are plenty of introverted homebody lesbians on the fediverse, but it’s very unlikely live near you, even if you’re from a major population center 😞

Most cis women would be called clocky by the people on 4trans. My guess is that many of them were jealous of the toxic girl cliques in highschool and get euphoria from being immature mean girls who tear other women down. There is a difference between giving requested feedback and subjecting yourself to self-flagellation.

Also, you look great and I would never clock you based on how you look. You met the bar for “passing” long ago.

you never have to worry about your hair getting messed up if it was already a mess in the first place 🥲

thanks, i threw it together myself 🥰

something fishy is going on here 🤔

there is a real overlap between those that don’t respect capitalism and those that don’t respect the english language

when you realize the dark elves are being racist and not meowing at you

I go through phases too, although it’s been years since I went all in on erotica

I think cheating is wrong because it’s a betrayal of your partner’s trust. What I have no problem with is my partners being with other people. That distinction is why I put “cheating” in quotations, as it isn’t really cheating when I’m fine with it. I worry about romantic partners betraying my trust in numerous ways, both before and after I realized I was poly. However, that’s a perfectly common fear that basically everyone has, not just about their partners, but about people in general.

What really made polyamory click for me was the realization that my partners being with others didn’t bother me, only them not communicating about it did. I can definitely get obsessive and possessive of other people; I definitely fear that people might abandon me. At the same time, that can happen regardless of if there is a third person involved, and if anything, being ok with a third person meant one less fear that would keep me up at night. So long as we’re both clear about our love for each other (something we’d need to do anyways), I would be happy.

This is all without even mentioning how awesome it is to be poly. Flirting with cuties guilt free? Bringing people home to each other? Having different itches scratched by different partners? Getting intimate with multiple people at once? Being poly is the best!

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No, you’re totally right. My whole point is that neither people pleasing nor being selfish and inconsiderate are good things. Like many jokes here about being unhinged and evil, it isn’t actually celebrating being bad person, but pushing back against the societal pressure to people please and be normal.

I’m not big on AO3 😔