I don’t have much to contribute to the cross-posting discussion, but I would like to know more about your issues with with “futa”. I 100% understand why the other examples you gave would be hurtful, but I don’t think I’ve ever heard any discussion on that with regards to futa. I’m not sure I understand what you mean by “equivocating real people with hentai”. Curious to hear your perspective!
This thread is what convinced me to look a bit deeper here and stay around. Burggit is not the cesspit you might expect if you heard about it elsewhere.
Also, welcome!!
Probably won’t be highly active but happy to interact with anyone on there! Also don’t mind DMing with anyone on Matrix. @phossu:matrix.org
Hi!! Welcome! Hope you like it here :)
I’m normally averse to watersports stuff… but pissing in ass/pussy sounds kinda hot. I’d try it. I’ve tested before and I am capable of pissing while staying hard, could be fun to let it out inside someone hehe
I used keybase briefly a couple years ago. Got bad vibes from some of the people I met and didn’t stick around. Had the same experience with some Matrix chats I’ve come across.
I love finding Loli communities but I prefer to keep barriers between myself and any cp or irl content, as I am not interested in viewing or sharing such content. I felt like I was just one wrong click away from seeing something dangerous on some of those places. Much prefer Burggit’s style.
That said, if you know of a chill community I wouldn’t mind checking them out!
I think me marking this thread as NSFW should allow us to speak openly, I doubt there will be mod issues.
Honestly I was expecting more answers on your level, I agree a lot of the other answers in this thread are relatively tame. Thank you for sharing your dark fetishes hehe
I’m totally with you on the aversion to irl stuff for some fetishes. I’m way too much of a softie irl to ever do something close to rape but it can still be really hot in porn. Same with Loli!!
I bet you have more to share, I’d love to hear what other things you are into but up to you if you want to keep going :)
I love this answer. Glad you got some enjoyment from this :)
Just to echo stuff already said here.
I checked out Lemmy a few months after the big reddit refugee wave. Saw some posts about defederation drama. Decided to take a look at the list of banned instances (Love that feature!). Opened a few and immediately knew most weren’t for me, but I’ve never shied away from digging around forums full of awful people or psychos. The “We are not who you think we are!” in the pinned thread caught my eye. Read the post and was pleasantly surprised at everything I saw. Decided to stick around for a bit, been enjoying it so far!
Also I’m not typically into this but I’d eat her ass like my life depended on it
I realize now I have a more obscure (I think) fetish! I’m really into SoF / SoP (Semen on figure/picture). Basically cum tributes, where someone cums on an anime figure or a picture. I love seeing the dick pulse and the anime figure get covered~
Here are some loli-based examples
I feel similarly about most fetishes. I actually love it when people have all sorts of wacky and weird fetishes, even if I’m not personally into it at all. Hence this thread! Fetishes are interesting, and you never know when someone might introduce you to a fetish you never knew you had. Happened to me a few times.
Robot pussy with advanced hydraulic action
I have a thing for fleshlights in general. I always thought this idea was a little odd but reading this gets me on board with it! Especially being able to still shoot cum inside her hehe
Sports bras are great 🤤 I love armpits and sport wear tends to show them off hehe
Combining kinks gets weird fast and I love it. Adding Loli to anything instantly makes it hotter imo. I’m curious, what is it about giving birth that turns you on? I’ve never had any kinks related to birth so I’d love to hear.
Based. Roman boys 🤤
I did not see that reply… 🤦 that does answer a lot of my questions. I wholeheartedly agree that using it to describe real people or canonically trans characters is bad.
I have seen some people online get rather specific about their definition of “futa”. Some say that it has to be a character with both a penis and a vagina, but many people will use it to refer to characters that don’t have a vagina. It gets even more complicated when you start considering things like gender. I guess at the heart of this is a level of ambiguity that is often present in fictional works. I often will not know anything about the characters involved in a hentai image, and sometimes there isn’t any real “canonical” info to know in the first place. With Japanese content in particular there is a cultural and linguistic element that can make it even harder.
It’s tricky, because I want to use language that allows all lgbt people to be comfortable, but at the same time there is a reason why a lot of online porn/fetish communities have coalesced around certain Japanese words (Japan makes good porn 😂). I would be perfectly happy getting rid of “futa” as a term, but there are decades worth of online content that are tagged with futa. I personally enjoy content that is described under a wide selection of terms, with varying degrees of overlap.
I think some variation of “fem-penis” might be the best bet for inclusive language that is also useful for pornography. It allows for some wiggle room in the gender identity of the character and is less cumbersome to read and understand than “FPWP” imho.
So I guess I don’t have a specific question any more, but I would love to hear your thoughts on dealing with gender ambiguity in fictional porn relating to this.