I’m working on growing my hair out as well, it’s frustrating how slowly it grows but hopefully it’ll be long soon. Then I plan to dye it too, just like in my profile picture.

Oh, I’ll definitely keep that in mind, gotta make sure to be extra careful when drying off after showering.

That’s reasonable, I did it now because I wanted to, and also because I know the sooner I do it, the sooner the healing process can start.

I say don’t let that stop you, if you want to get your ears pierced you should absolutely do it. Don’t let judgement of stupid people stop you, do what makes you happy, and be who you want.

Yeah I was told I should wear only the stud until it heals completely.

I wish I was on HRT rn :(

Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

It’s kind of a joke post but also kind of not, since I aspire to be a very butch, very Masc tomboy transfem. I’m not concerned if I pass enough for people’s tastes, I just want to be happy and be myself, my true self.

Is a Girl <3 | … :(

What are you on about? You ARE a girl <3 🏳️‍⚧️

Good suggestion, I’ll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I’ve got the money for it.

been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

What? You’ve been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don’t want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

Uh yeah, British transphobes 😅

That’s good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don’t lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn’t immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it’s something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I’m going for the butch tomboy look, and also it’s nice to be strong.

That makes sense. I might be one of those, I always had a hard time dating women before, but I wasn’t aware I was a lesbian back then (since I was still an Egg).

I guess it’s good that I don’t have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don’t think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I’m on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I’ll be doing it more then so I don’t lose muscle mass as much, that’s one thing I don’t really want to happen when I’m on E.

Why do some people push back against this sentiment? You do realize that transphobes are awful people that don’t need or deserve defending right? Next I’m going to hear people opposed to punching Nazis?

That’s good to know, I’ll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

What’s a disaster lesbian?

I’ll look into getting some of those and trying to see if it looks good and/or makes me feel better. Thank you for the suggestion.

Oh thank you, I’ll definitely look into getting myself some of those. Will make sure to get a high quality one too. I imagine I’ll be wearing it almost all the time until I can grow my own natural ones.

Any suggestions of where I should look to buy them? Could I just look on Amazon or is there a specific brand or site I should be aware of?

Girlcock is awesome! I say that as a Lesbian myself who enjoys it, and as a trans girl who also has one. Girlcock is the best!