loveshame@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•The dominant theme for cock caging/pegging seems to revolve around submission/emasculation. But why?English
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7 days agoI mean… I like it. Socially obfuscated power dynamics, especially gendered ones, have caused me a lot of discomfort and confusion. BDSM stimulates me because it’s exciting and cathartic to drop the complicated, ambiguous facade of hierarchical etiquette and engage with power directly. I enjoy it in both directions but usually only one way with a particular person. There is some objective power delta between any two subjects. Either embracing or defying it can be satisfying. It’s about clarity.
Fewer questions, more face-fucking please mistress. Grab my hair and grind your hips like you’re trying to start a fire. If I’m not concerned for my own safety it doesn’t count. Drown me.