pooberbee (she/her)
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Thank you for Garfield minus everything
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mlto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Legit mtf curiosity question (post surgery)English
291·25 days agoI haven’t.
It’s worth noting that male and female genitalia are analogous; it’s all the same parts, basically, just arranged differently. Bottom surgery tries to preserve the analogy where possible, so parts aren’t removed so much as rearranged.
Also, I don’t give a fuck if you’re “freaky”. I am a normal person and don’t wish to treated like a sideshow, so maybe be a little more respectful if you’re going to ask questions to a frequently maligned and othered community.
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mltoFunhole@lemmy.sdf.org•Funhole is harvesting organs from Falun Gong members
6·25 days agoIf you think about it, THEY were actually genociding YOU by keeping the organs for themselves
I’m pretty sure shaving before laser is preferred, whereas you need a bit of growth for electrolysis. I’m not an expert, but I’ve done a bunch of both.
Personally, I shit on it more for being racist than being transphobic, but there’s also a throwaway line in there about crossdressing that makes me uncomfortable. It’s not a bad movie overall, and I definitely benefitted from seeing a girl masking as a boy (that resonated with me FOR SOME REASON) being heroic.
Non-negotiables for a potential life partner:
- Every gender at the same time
- Hot
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mlto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Every transfem is cute except me! 😤
25·29 days agoLotta cuties in these comments~ good thing I’m immune!
Have fun!
My old job legitimately did this in C++ with a Perl script because we had to be able to build on some weird, old systems and couldn’t use C++ templates.
Congratulations! I hope recovery goes smoothly! I’m having (different) surgery next month, and I’m nervous!
I am perpetually on my own todo list. I wish I could be on someone else’s, too
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mlto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•pronoun changes before/after transitionEnglish
17·1 month agoI’ve been there, and it’s always upsetting to hear people invalidate themselves. You aren’t “realizing” anything when you predicate your identity on arbitrary standards of beauty or whatever. Women don’t stop being women if they are ugly. Don’t gatekeep yourself. If some pronouns make you feel good, then use them. Tell others to use them. You are a strong woman for making it this far, and you deserve respect.
Earthmelon is a potato
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mlto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•You have to invent a new type of candy or dessert, but if it's physically impossible or another commenter can prove it already exists, you lose. What are you making?
3·1 month agoSounds kind of like dragon’s beard candy.
I saw them live. Too many metalheads and not enough catgirls
pooberbee (she/her)@lemmy.mlto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•First time doing my nails :)English
5·1 month agoNice work! Honestly very good for a first time. You have really nice nails!
And invalidating a woman’s feminism because she wears a hijab is a tool of the patriarchy. That is the point.








One time, I met a cute girl at a social function, and she was really cool and we got along super well. The following semester, I was surprised to be in the same class as her, so I went over to her after class and just started chatting and hanging out and was surprised how quiet and serious she was in a school setting, but she opened up over time.
Anyway, you see where this is going. Not quite the same, but often to limitation of knowing someone before befriending them is self-imposed