Investing in real estates and saving energies. Some of the advice of all time.

I’ll throw my hat in for starting with DS9. I’m just finishing the final season with my partner now - her first watch - and it’s really cemented why its my favourite Trek. It holds up incredibly well.

FWIW I’d go with seeing if you can get comfortable around him first, as suggested here. I definitely agree that you have to be ready before going on this trip, and hanging out with the dude to get to know him would be a big part of that. Because the truth is, the two of you likely have a some stuff in common and you’d probably get along really well under other circumstances.

If you’re not mad at her anymore, maybe it might help to view him through the lens of someone who makes her happy; there’s also an opportunity here to make a good friend who you can trust to take good care of her and your son if something happens to you. If you do decide to meet up with him, you might even ask her about some things she thinks you might like about him so you have some conversation starters. And, it’s clear that there’s good will on the other side to try and mend fences for the sake of the kid, which speaks well to both his character and that of your ex-wife. They could have just said no and never mentioned it to you, or worse they could have been scheming to cut you out of your son’s life. A holiday invitation kinda says a lot about how they view you, when you think of it like that.

However you decide bud I hope you manage okay through all this, and I do hope you can find a way to be friendly with him. It’s incredibly strong of you to even be considering putting yourself out there like that. As evidenced by most of the comments here, that would not be a common reaction. Good luck!

Splitting out storage and computer is definitely good first step to increase optimization and increase failure resiliency.

Exactly why I’ve been considering doing it this way for my new setup! I had to leave my last one on the other side of the planet and have felt positively cramped with just a couple TB worth of internal drives, can’t wait to properly spread out again.

The same kind as being used by the hyper-rich to nip down the shops for a ham sandwich?

Tattoo the rings, problem solved! 😁

Is there anything about yourself you had to work hard on for the benefit of your son? Are you doing anything specifically to try and make sure he turns out well (whatever that might mean to you)?

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I have never heard it called that, but IT is a big field - plenty of room to accommodate stylistic differences.

Is there a major difference between the newer Spiderman games, mechanically, or are they just longer stories/campaigns in some? (and by “newer” I mean since 2018, the last one I played was on the PS2 I think 😅)

Life in the Imperium of Man is misery on a scale incomprehensible to our human minds. Ritualistic self-sacrifice is seen as preferable to existence. They survive because they became the monsters.

Give it a year.

We went from Deep Dream in 2015: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DeepDream

To Midjourney and Stable Diffusion in 2022, to AI Will Smith eating spaghetti in March 2023: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/ai-will-smith-eating-spaghetti

To services like LumaLabs and openAI’s Sora, coming out now/2025-ish.

This is the equivalent of the spaghetti video, for video games. This Minecraft clone being generated in real time and playable is absolutely crazy.

The death of local news plays into this too as it becomes much more difficult to stay informed about the people and politics of those smaller local elections.

Case in point: my county had a bunch of judges up for election and when I did my reading on them I found out about a huge corruption scandal playing out right now. Nothing that will make national headlines, probably. If I’d just read the recommendations I’d not have heard, and voted those bastards back in. Local news is super important.

I think that’s quite a stretch.

I assure you, it is not.

Za-zoom.

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Let the punishment fit the crime! Their windows shall be omelettes! 🥚🥚🥚

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IT here, please don’t drag us into this… unless you’re looking for help. We enjoy malicious compliance just as much as anyone else.

like a lot of other leftists

Oh hey, a GQP shill account! You guys don’t wanna bother with Lemmy, it’s too small for your operations to have enough impact. Go back to reddit, the numbers make more sense 👍

Great, now all those good-looking emergency personnel are going to be tied up answering marketing calls instead of driving out in their nicer vans to help up elderly people who’ve fallen.