cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/45204357

Yesterday, I created my account on Lemmy.ml because I want to become mod on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml. And I posted this comic on !stardewvalley@lemmy.ml It’s SDV game cutscene where Shane a NPC go watch Sports game with you kiss you accidentily but It was part of that event also player kiss Shane(NPC) back. Here’s video for more context. And someone claimed it have SA(Sexual Assualt) From Hexbear Ofcourse. So, I should delete it. I said it was a part of game cutscene. And If main player doesn’t love the Shane(NPC) then they don’t need to complete this event. And Just as a sarcasm I added Yeah we shoule delete this entire community because this game is Woke like Woke Detector Steam Group said. That user think I am some anti-woke dickhead something like that IDK. And tell me to Kill My Self. What I do now? I wanted on become mod on .ml because community was already well established. I message dessaline but I am sure he will not unbanned me. :(

Did I really did something wrong? I don’t know If I really did something wrong.

Link for that comic if embed doesn’t work.

Comic

  • Snoopy@jlai.luEnglish
    101·
    11 days ago

    Dunno, but seeing you taking part in this and encouraging bad behaviour…

    • Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
      24·
      11 days ago

      I agreed with the message, not the tone nor how it was delivered. You can see me elaborate in my own words on that thread.

      If you have a problem with what I say, engage it directly.

      • Snoopy@jlai.luEnglish
        8·
        11 days ago

        Thank for your honnest reply. I consider you are encouraging them. If you disagree with the tone, can you tell OP to edit his message and remove insult ? So we can aknowledge it as proof of good faith.

        Thank

          • Snoopy@jlai.lu
            8·
            11 days ago

            They are all breaking the rule, but i asked our modo team to let this post since i wanted to try talking with you all.

            Otherwise, you would never change, neither them.

            My main point is that you shouldn’t encourage people to do that because they will continu.

            For example, when you are in a group that insult lonely people. There is a social mechanic, the harasser need supporters. It gives a sense of being in a group and loved. If we remove the supporter, then the harasser would have less reason to continue to do so, don’t you think ?

            That’s why i asked you to talk to them because i also defend Hexbear, in my own way.

            I believe you can have a positive change on them since they will be more willing to listen you. I believe you are the right person, you can take a more active role.

            • Cowbee [he/him]@lemmy.ml
              34·
              11 days ago

              That’s why I call out my comrades from time to time. I don’t think the right way to do that is to strong-arm people into doing so.

              • Snoopy@jlai.luEnglish
                2·
                11 days ago

                Same. Strong-arm doesn’t work. Usually, we reach people and ask them to edit their post, even the mod/admin team, and apologize or wait it to stop by itself.

                Anyway, thank for taking your time and giving us your feedback. :)

                Have a nice evening :)