• Hugin@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 month ago

    Nina Hartly has a huge series of Nina Hartly’s guide to [subject]. They are very good and I’ve been complemented when using the techniques.

    I’m a straight guy so the cunnilingus has been the most useful. The blowjob guide has also been helpful as I can better describe what I want.

    For bondage the two knotty boys stuff is good. They put a bunch of stuff on youtube but it was removed. You can still find it around on sites.

    Bondage for Sex by Chanta Rose is great for less fancy but more quick and very dirty fun.

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      1 month ago

      I don’t suppose you’ve got links to any of those "Nina Hartley’s Guide To"s? I searched on a couple platforms but came up dry. Or well not “dry”, but fruitless…

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        1 month ago

        I have them on dvd from before the streaming days. There are a lot of them as well. It’s hard to know what you are going to be interested in.

        A quick search found a few on xhamster.

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    1 month ago

    As much as porn gets a bad rep for what not to do, I honestly think it’s been the biggest help over the many years. Sure, it’s not all feasible or enjoyable, but there are times you can absolutely see where it can work really well in the bedroom. I guess it all depends on what type of porn you’re into as well. I think it has done me well figuring out what works best throughout the years, and will continue to help until I am either too old to care about sex or I drop dead.

  • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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    1 month ago

    Years ago I remember seeing a video, not sure if it was youtube, where a female sex therapist gives tips to a married couple. This was not porn but a real sex therapy session. I can no longer find anything like it.