Mike Dulak grew up Catholic in Southern California, but by his teen years, he began skipping Mass and driving straight to the shore to play guitar, watch the waves and enjoy the beauty of the morning. “And it felt more spiritual than any time I set foot in a church,” he recalled.

Nothing has changed that view in the ensuing decades.

“Most religions are there to control people and get money from them,” said Dulak, now 76, of Rocheport, Missouri. He also cited sex abuse scandals in Catholic and Southern Baptist churches. “I can’t buy into that,” he said.

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    Unfortunately you can’t have religion without people trying to evangelize. It’s part of the problem.

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          Yeah, sort of funny. A good number of religions are hard to convert to (or don’t take converts). Partially because religion in human history has been a tool for a community to distinguish why they are better than outsiders. A lot of older religions died from this exclusivity.

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      That’s not correct. Where I live, religion is intertwined with daily life and yet nobody ever tried to talk me into anything

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      There’s a world of difference between “you should join my religion, we don’t eat fish” and “my religion says you can’t eat fish.”