• MaxMalRichtig@discuss.tchncs.de
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    23 days ago

    You see my life as lacking […] based on what you like

    I think that is exactly the case here. People just can’t comprehend how a life other than their own would look like.

    I guess that also falls under the Dunning Kruger Effect?

    • Viceversa@lemmy.world
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      23 days ago

      I think that is exactly the case here. People just can’t comprehend how a life other than their own would look like.

      Oh, I can.
      For years I had severe clinical depression and it rendered me incapable of feeling almost anything towards my SO, friends and relatives.
      It was… I wouldn’t wish that upon anyone.

      Now medication at last is working and it’s like chalk and cheese.

      • LwL@lemmy.world
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        22 days ago

        That’s… not the same as being aro at all. It doesn’t mean you feel nothing towards anyone. Just that you’re not interested in romantic relationships at all.