I like women. I like the shape and curves of the female body. I like boobs, I like asses, I like pretty vaginas. I also appreciate and am aroused by a nice cock. I’m however not otherwise attracted to the male body. I like femboys as long as they have a feminine-like shape and curves, as many of them do.

WTF is my sexual orientation?

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    91·
    9 months ago

    It hasn’t. The bisexual manifesto, going back to 1990 for example, said the following

    Bisexuality is a whole, fluid identity. Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or dougamous in nature; that we must have “two” sides or that we MUST be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don’t assume that there are only two genders.

    • vexikron@lemmy.zip
      3·
      9 months ago

      Huh, I hadn’t read it. Everyone I know / knew who identified as bi in the 00s or 10s explained it to me as I said, and that does seem to be the general public understanding of the term by anyone Ive talked to in person in the last 5 years or so.

      Ive also had self professed pan people explain bisexuality to me as I originally described it as recently as 2 years ago.

      • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        51·
        9 months ago

        And that is ultimately why everyone gets to pick their own labels irrelevant of discussions like the one we’re having. It’s all subjective and malleable over time!

    • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
      1·
      9 months ago

      Absofuckinglutely, in particular there’s far too much assumption out there that bi people must be poly - it’s a large portion of why I shifted my chosen label to pan… that and because there was briefly a strong anti-trans bisexual movement.