• BruceTwarzen@kbin.social
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    2 months ago

    Good for them. Dating apps are a nightmare for dudes. These days, and if someone is impressed by this, fair play.

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      2 months ago

      What? This is saying that the dudes already so detached from reality that they don’t find any women should even further detach from reality. If you are an open-minded cis dude who respects women and sees them as equal human beings you’ll have no problem finding anyone.

      • ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.uk
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        2 months ago

        If you are an open-minded cis dude who respects women and sees them as equal human beings you’ll have no problem finding anyone.

        It’s not always that simple. For example, I cared for my Dad 24/7 which involved a convoluted pill regime (and a series of alarms throughout the day). My social life took a real hit. There are also mental and physical health issues, as well as financial aspects.

        All that said, anyone thinking this is the solution deserves to be scammed because it is hardly informed consent.

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          OK, let me rephrase this into “if you are … you will be as likely as cishet women to find someone to date”. My point was that cishet men may have it hard to find someone because they are not catching up with progressive and emancipatory values. There are many many heteropessimisstic or otherwise frustrated women out there searching for a guy that does not treat them like shit.

          But sure, if you don’t have the capacity for a social life or for dating then obviously this won’t be as easy. My comment was a response to the premise that cishet guys have it harder in dating and that they should be allowed to scam people.