• PrunesMakeYouPoop@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    As a dude who build wire harnesses, I absolutely loathe when people call them male/female.

    There are plugs and receptacles, and pins and sockets.

    Plugs plug into receptacles. Receptacles get plugged into by plugs.
    Pins plug into sockets. Sockets get plugged into by pins.

    It can get very confusing when you have a receptacle with pins or a plug with sockets and some chode says something gender referenced, such as “the male end”.
    Ok, are you talking about the plug? Nope, obviously they were talking about the receptacle, because it has pins, even though that’s the end that gets plugged into.

    So frustrating.

    • KptnAutismus@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Jst-sm are a nightmare to figure out. i know that the side carrying voltage is supposed to be the one with the plugs, but that one is hard to mount to anything. i hate and love them very much. they go against everything a connector is supposed to be (at least in my mind) and they are beautiful. highly recommend. at least for RC stuff.

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      1 year ago

      My sister entirely refers to these as “the hole” and “the penis”. In a progressive setting, neither of these terms are gendered.

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      1 year ago

      …is it bad that as a trans man who knows nothing about electrical connectors, I still find this rant relatable? You’d think there would be some kind of terminology for getting your equipment to play with your other equipment, but no, and don’t even get me started on what happens when it has to interface with organic systems…

      • PrunesMakeYouPoop@kbin.social
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        1 year ago

        In the connector world, we call it mating. In my previous comment, I should have said “mates with” instead of “plugs into”, but wanted to make it simple and abundantly clear.

        “Interface with organic systems” I actively laughed at this. I find your phrasing way funnier than it should be. Thanks for the chuckle.

        But yeah, every word is a made up word, so make one up?