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Cake day: January 15th, 2026

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  • I most definitely did not imply that because I’d never say that direct communication doesn’t or can’t end relationships and I’d push back on anyone suggesting that. I also already stated quite clearly that there is a time and place for every style of communication. So you’ve managed to demonstrate my prior point about indirect communication, then managed to restate what I already said, all the while convinced we’re in disagreement based on something I did not say, despite the fact that everything I actually did say is in agreeance with what you said.

    I am so tired.









  • I stopped hanging out in the queer circles in my city because they wouldn’t quit making jokes about me fucking my best friend even though I told them how uncomfortable it made me and demanded in no uncertain terms that they stop. I think at one point I called one of the women there a ghoul.

    I would love to feel comfortable expressing affection to my male friends without it being cast into some sort of perverse fantasy by ghoullish onlookers. I love my friends enough to kiss them, and have occasionally, in privacy. But the whole thing has been poisoned by perverts who think they can do no wrong. They suggest that opposing their flagrant sexualization of platonic love is some sort of homophobia. Like, no bitch, you’re just addicted to yaoi and smut books. You’re a sex pest.





  • Have you considered that God may not be universally benevolent? Or God may be building you into a stronger person? Or maybe you’re being punished? Maybe God isn’t even thinking of you. Maybe God creates the circumstances but doesn’t choose to control the outcomes.

    I don’t know, man. I don’t think God chooses to fuck your life up. I don’t think he’s responsible for unfucking it either. I think hatred for God is a dysfunctional coping mechanism to shift blame away from your own actions.







  • Considering that miscommunication and misunderstanding are a common occurrence for practically everyone I would have to disagree. I’ve seen it end plenty of friendships over the years. In pretty much every case, if either party was willing to just speak clearly and directly it could have been resolved easily.

    I can only speak for the US, but it really seems like we don’t have that shared, intuitive language anymore. People are so different due to myriad of reasons to a point that it disrupts that intuitive communication. I know this is true because if I travel to a country with a more cohesive intuitive language, like India for example, it’s actually a lot easier for me to understand that indirect communication because it’s more consistent between people.