Hey,

I’m not an real trans, I consider me self non binary. I think its easier for me.

Today I got my first sockets, and to wear them, I did my first hair removal. 🥰🥰 (age : 30 passed )

What an pain girls, how you do that regularly. How bear that ??!! Give me tips pls !

I don’t wanna die by doing it, but what an pain !!!
I did fights in my life, I got shocked, but wtf this… 🤬 And on the foot, for a little part, I’ve cheated, used an razor and cut me self 🤤

I just did half the job, I will do the thighs later, or no ! 🥺😶‍🌫️

I’m so proud of that, don’t know why. I pretty like the result.

Ty to read me

        • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          4·
          1 year ago

          Yeah, but they’re doing that thing where when we’re in the closet, or not transitioning, we downplay our own identity and needs, and call ourselves fake.

          I’m just making it clear that she’s very much not fake, she’s as real as any of us, whatever her life looks like :)

          • TGhost[any]@lemmy.fmhy.netOP
            1·
            1 year ago

            You touch something,
            I feel fake by “doing the girl” at home.
            But there is no disturb to me, to appear as an man, all my life I’ve been an man for others.
            I don’t care of my gender finally, that’s not define me self I think.

            That’s why i define me self as non-binary.

            To be honest, I think I don’t have the correct vocabulary. I understand what you are all saying. To precise, for me an trans person is effectively someone who affirm the gender with outfits or make up, at the world. In this case an man to woman.
            I’m really far from that.

            But this hair removal I don’t know how to explain, but today at work its like I feel different (even the sensation of the legs within pants have changed).

            • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
              4·
              1 year ago

              You can take your time to find the vocabulary. Finding yourself is a journey, not a destination :)

              But wherever you end up, you’re just as real as the rest of us. Don’t compare yourself to others and think they’re real and you’re not.

    • TGhost[any]@lemmy.fmhy.netOP
      1·
      1 year ago

      Yeah that’s it.

      I’m even not transitioning at all. In my life, my apparences tell that I’m a man.

      I don’t have the vocabulary yet.

      I did this account for this purpose too, I need to use it more ^^