So I can load other communities on lemmit.online from this server but they all only have posts older than 8-9 months. BoRU only has posts 9 months and younger. So whatever caused the disconnect happened roughly 8-9 months ago.
EDIT: Yup! Just reread this comment that mentions lemmit online’s outdated version and the the timeline matches right up. Mystery solved, but idk what to do about it other than messaging whoever runs that server.
I completely agree.
Your work situation sounds frustrating, but in my experience these things usually average out over time. You’ll get an easy win eventually.