Canât take being misgendered and harassed. He/himed. People starting arguments over their own intolerance and blaming the arguments on drag. Banned from trans communities on blahaj and then unbanned but the unban didnât federate, so donât know where to post this. In so much pain. Hopes this post wonât lead to more pain. What do you do when nobody will believe youâre hurt, and every time you scream out in pain, youâre accused of having an agenda? What kind of agenda is just not wanting to be harassed anymore? They think theyâre winning when they fill a thread with drama and then complain about all the drama. They think theyâre doing something right? How do you tell people youâre honestly suffering and have them believe you?
self-harm thoughts
Do you just cut your skin open and show it to them? Is that how you convince them that theyâre causing you pain? HOW? How the fuck do you convince them that your pain isnât a trick?
They tell you to block them while they misgender you and tell the whole world youâre the devil. âJust ignore everything Iâm doing to hurt you and youâll be okayâ. It doesnât make any sense but they think itâs right. They could choose to disengage this very minute but they donât. They think harassment and misgendering is a crusade of justice. That hurting people is a moral good, but oh no, donât you dare claim youâre hurt when I hurt you.
How the fuck do you post your tears on lemmy?
Answer: I understand your pain, but also no one on Lemmy is qualified to help you in any way. Get off the internet. When using Lemmy is not serving you, dont come back to Lemmy expecting it to suddenly serve you.
The admins of lemmy.world and the mods of the community where it happened are qualified to help. All they have to do is press a button and the harassment goes away. And thatâs exactly what theyâre expected to do.