Thereā€™s definitely some additional nuance (like a pronouns in bio/username situation) but this should cover the broad needs of anyone who is approaching this with good faith.

  • WillStealYourUsername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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    Calling someone they/them when you donā€™t know their pronouns is fine, and them being upset doesnā€™t ruin anything for anyone else. Neither you nor they are harming ā€œ10 years of progress in gender neutral pronounsā€ as you put it. What a strange narrative.