So I can load other communities on lemmit.online from this server but they all only have posts older than 8-9 months. BoRU only has posts 9 months and younger. So whatever caused the disconnect happened roughly 8-9 months ago.
EDIT: Yup! Just reread this comment that mentions lemmit online’s outdated version and the the timeline matches right up. Mystery solved, but idk what to do about it other than messaging whoever runs that server.
ime the best leaders get shit on for any decision because by simple logic if everyone agreed on something they’d probably just do it. Asking a leader almost by definition means someone isn’t going to like your answer, and the people who do often don’t say anything because they “expected you to do the right thing anyway” in a situation where in all likelihood all of the answers were wrong. I’ve been dealing with this at my job a lot lately. I like that overall people trust me and trust my instincts, but a lot of situations have had only wrong answers lately and I’m getting very tired. The leaders who don’t get shit on for their decisions are the ones who hide well enough (and they’re usually the absolute worst).
I completely agree.
Your work situation sounds frustrating, but in my experience these things usually average out over time. You’ll get an easy win eventually.